Letting Go For Good

Letting go is one of the hardest and the most liberating thing a person can do.

You let go of the impossible goals you’ve set on for.

You let go of the feelings towards people who puts you in a bad situation.

And become fully self-actualized in a moment when you gained something from losing something really important.

Yesterday, I was at the church, and the priest talked about letting go. He explained that letting go will lead you to greatest happiness you never thought you’ll ever have, bring into a state of balance and stability and learned and understand at one point that everything happens for a reason, and what’s meant to be will happen as long as you trust and believe.

It was such good timing because I’m on a verge of letting go or I’ve been slowly letting go of the fantasy I think will become a reality years from now. That’s not to say, I’m not going to have the last effort to make this fantasy come true. Well, it won’t really come true, days had passed, and I realized that my interest on it is decreasing day by day. Maybe because I’m finally getting out for good from my bubble I constructed to protect myself and my future or maybe because I’m starting to see things I haven’t been seeing before. Making the last effort for it is to prove to myself that what I learned about it is not really meant to be.

Another thing that letting go creates in your life, it gives you something important to you too.

I gained something, not just one but a lot of more. And I am more than grateful because it never occurred to me that it would happen.

I gained the opportunity to do what I love, writing. I got another chance to pursue my other passion, singing, and my passion for the piano that I’ve lost maybe eleven or twelve years ago is back. Getting them back in my life made me the happiest person because I gave them up years ago.

God has been really good to me this year, not that he hasn’t been good in the previous years. I have to admit I’ve lost my way and became distrustful compared to how I was before in high school.

This year, what happened to me, made me somehow self-actualized. Letting go led me to my peak experience I’ve become much more happier, accepting, appreciative, grateful, considerate, positive, beautiful inside and out, confident about myself, active than I was before, more open-minded, it has given me more perspectives, made me think out of the box more often and see things differently.

You should try it too! It’s not easy, it’s hard, and very painful but it’s worth it. I assure you that.

Trust my word when I say that if it’s meant to be, it will happen and if it’s not something better will be given to you.

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4 thoughts on “Letting Go For Good

  1. Thank you for humbling my page with your presence =] Also thank you for reblogging my post! and I loved this post! I’m currently dealing with a lot of letting go which I’ve been writing about too! And everything you’re saying hits home. It’s painful but worth it.

    • You’re welcome (“,) I more humbled by your presence. Your blog is great. You are amazing.
      You have a way with words. From your words, I can tell that you’re a wonderful and strong person.

      I’m so glad to meet you here. Know that you’re not alone, what we’re going through maybe different but we feel the same emotions. I know you can do it. Just hang in there. If you’re looking for answers, it will come to you at the right place and time and when you least expect it. πŸ™‚

  2. Thank you! That’s so true. I’ve come to find that through blogging I’ve come to meet some beautiful human beings, kindred spirits that I would’ve never met otherwise and i’m so grateful for that so i’m glad to meet you too! you’re awesome πŸ™‚ I’m already experiencing the transformation of letting go i’m just holding out to find out why it all had to happen, i know it will come in due time =]

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